When people message you, you might eventually want to give them your contact information. But we advise you to keep the conversation on our site until you are sure that you want to have a closer relationship.
There are a few reasons you should keep the conversation on the site:
Keep the conversation here until you feel comfortable with a member before telling them information such as your email address, telephone number, address, or social network details.
If you are going to reveal your email address, why not setup a new email account rather than giving your personal email address away.
If you are going to have a telephone conversation with someone, make sure you block your telephone number so they can't see it. If you are unsure how to do this, contact your telephone provider.
If you are going to Telegram or Whatsap with someone, create a new account and don't use your real name.
When you meet someone, your common sense and instincts can help you decide if it is a good idea to pursue a relationship with that person. Love usually happens over time, so if someone you've just met or have been in touch with recently asks you for money, they probably don't have good intentions. Although scams are rare, it's still a good idea to be aware of the warning signals, especially if you have decided to communicate with somebody privately outside of our site.
When you start to date someone you met online, it is a good idea to meet in person in a public place. This way, you will be safe. Make sure to tell someone where you are going and when you will be back. You should also stay sober and keep your belongings with you.
No matter how many messages you have exchanged, how long you have been chatting or how well you think you know the member, if they are asking for money they are almost certainly a scammer. If you have emotionally invested in the relationship it can be difficult to accept, but it is important to remember that if someone is asking for money they are not genuine.